Random Thoughts…. Disappointment

My posts always start out with almost the same statement..it’s been a while since I wrote something! :mrgreen: Nothing different about today, its been a while since I wrote. I promised myself I would write once a week but so far I haven’t stuck to that promise. Resolutions/Goals huh!! I hope to do better.

My post today is about disappointment. How do you deal with it? You have been let down by people or circumstances..how do you move on? Do you pretend it never happened? Do you make a note in your diary to never go down that road again? How did you get on that road in the first place? Maybe you placed too much trust in that person or object. Sometimes I do that. I get my hopes up high or I trust in people too much and I end up disappointed and frustrated. But what if it’s family? The people you care about the most. All I can say is it hurts! But I have to move on right. I have to get up on my feet, forgive, learn from it and move on! That’s the only way to go. I’m too young to have gray hairs!! :mrgreen:

Hebrews 13:1-2 ASV
Let love of the brethren continue. Forget not to show love unto strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.

Psalm 42:11 ASV
Why art thou cast down, O my soul? And why art thou disquieted within me? Hope thou in God; for I shall yet praise him, Who is the help of my countenance, and my God.

Don’t just talk about it, be about it!!

It’s the new year and with it comes resolutions, promises usually of change to self and others. It’s the time we take out our notebooks and start writing down stuff we want to change and do differently.

I am guilty of making resolutions/promises which I break before the year is out. This year I am determined to do things differently. Here is how I’m going to do things this year :

1. Write down reasonable resolutions.

2. Find accountability partners.

3. Make them aware of my resolutions.

4. Give my accountability partners permission to challenge me when I break my resolutions.

Maybe I should call them goals? Whatever they are, I am determined to stick to them this new year. I’m done being all talk and no action!

Ecclesiastes 11:4 NKJV He who observes the wind will not sow, And he who regards the clouds will not reap.

Proverbs 14:23 NKJV In all labor there is profit, But idle chatter leads only to poverty.

As the song goes, don’t just talk about it, be about it!!

Happy new year!! 🎉🎊

Random Thoughts…. Anger

Controlling our emotions can be very challenging. Especially anger! 😠! When things don’t go our way or when someone offends us it’s very easy to get angry. You feel the emotion building up in the pit of your stomach, and you feel it moving up to your chest, your head! It feels like the temperature has suddenly gone up. Depending on who you are, sweat beads start building on your forehead, your armpits feel wet….or angry words start pouring out of your mouth!

I for one was prone to temper tantrums!  I found it hard to control my temper. The things I described above used to happen to me…but most times I wouldn’t verbally express my anger! I just stewed and let it kill me inside.

Not anymore!!

Having a baby in the house teaches you a lot…or shall I say having a toddler! :D. I have learnt to control my temper and to try and understand the situation first. As time passes I have learnt to smile or laugh in place of anger. I find myself laughing with my daughter when she does things that frustrate me.

I’m not there yet…every day I get better.

Let’s be slow to anger like our Father in Heaven. 🙂

Ecclesiastes 7:9 NLT Control your temper, for anger labels you a fool.

Proverbs 16:32 KJV He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.

Psalms 145:8 KJV The Lord is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy.